What percentage of a class of 30 students will agree with you that Mathematics is a great subject? You might answer “around 10 to 35%” and that's all. Most kids today, like always, are not too thrilled about solving Mathematical equations; not because they don't know the processes involved, but because of their lack of interest in it.
In a similar way, our daily activities do not necessarily mean 100% joy and 0% problems. At times, we have more problems than joy. Fortunately, there are individuals who are skilled in handling problems the right way. Would you like to know their secrets?
Well, carefree people, as some might call them, have one thing in common: optimism. These kinds of people do not mean they never had problems before. Try remembering a colleague, a relative, a friend, or someone from your community who has the brightest smile; from the start until the end of the day. How many times did you see that person frown? Carefree people are fun to be with because their attitude is contagious. Have you tried asking them how they carry their problems lightly? Below are their secrets:
1. Learn to control your feelings by separating negative feelings from positive thoughts. This is the first step in solving problems. Only after you have cleared your mind from unnecessary thoughts can you start solving your problems accordingly.
2. Treat each problem as challenge, and an opportunity for self-improvement. Empower yourself.
3. Get rid of that "scapegoat" attitude. Do you routinely point your finger or blame others for mishaps? Take responsibility for your mistakes. You can't see clearly by fogging up the lense. No one is perfect, so never put the blames on others.
4. Use a pen and paper, and rate the depth of the problem and possible answers to your problem. The laws of Probability will allow you to evaluate how far you have thought of resolving your problems. Learning, or not Learning from experience.
5. Keep a journal and treat it as a “secret friend” who is always willing to listen to your grievances. Write your feelings freely.
6. Develop a noteworthy hobby, this will help you lessen or minimize the stress in your life.
7. Take time off from work and create variations of your daily schedule. Relax and check out the best movies in town. Travel and meet new wonderful people. You will find these activities worthwhile in the long run.
The above tips will help you optimize those positive feelings of yours. Say you are already consumed by some problems. Here are the 1-2-3 steps in doing your problem solving:
1. Determine the root cause of the problem. If you think it is difficult, ask hundreds of why’s and what’s and you will soon find out the cause.
2. Think, strategize, and act for resolution.
3. Develop a strong desire to solve the problem.
4. Review the situation for you to avoid repeating the same mistakes committed beforehand.
Consider that everybody experiences lowliness many times, but problems are problems. They are there not to annoy you; but problems are created when you cannot accept your limitations. Once you accept your limitations, problem solving is just a 1-2-3 step, hassle-free, and a life-sharpening experience indeed. Do not ever consume yourself with, or lock yourself in your room when a problem strikes. Think that problems are states of your being limited to something you need the most. But if you cannot have that important thing, accept it. Let go and you will free yourself with worries. Remember, less worries mean less problems. If you think that you really want some time out because of problems, consider that there is another room available for you called “improvement.”
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